Bring Home the Bread! - Money Fights #3

I say, "We are out of bread (or other household staples like butter, cheese, milk, etc.). We need to go to the store right away."

He says, "It is fun to see how long you can go surviving on what we have. Wait until payday."

I don't know why I feel like a bad mom when I don't have the exact food or snack that my children want. My husband on the other hand relishes these moments to teach our kids patience, resourcefulness,  and gratefulness.  After the whining subsides, I am continually surprised at the fun meals that are concocted from the supplies in our cupboard.  Everyone was pleasantly surprised when I actually made buscuits a couple of weeks ago because we were out of store-bought bread and tortillas for so long.

What has your family surprisingly survived on when money was tight?

Dave can Save Your Marriage - Money Fights #2

Money Fight #2 -
I say, "Where did that money go that was in my purse?"

He says, "Keep track of your purchases so we can make a good budget."

I really don't buy many large purchases, but my tiny purchases (garage sales, thrift stores, the dollar store, sonic, McDonald's, etc.) add up quick and are the hardest to keep track of. My husband does a great job of monitoring my debit card purchases using Mint.com.  For cash purchases, the Dave Ramsey's envelope system is superb at helping you stick to your budget and keep spending under control.

Basically when you keep a good record of what you spend your money on, you are able to make a good working budget.  A budget is just you telling your money where you want it to go. If you don't make a plan and keep good records, your wallet will start playing the old "disappearing money" trick on you, too.

This is just one of the basic money management concepts that Dave Ramsey teaches on his radio program, numerous best-selling books, podcasts, seminars, and in his Financial Peace Seminars. If you are struggling financially and your marriage is struggling as a result, stop everything you are doing right now and go to DaveRamsey.com. He is one of my favorite radio personalities of all times because he is a genious with money, practical and to the point, God-fearing, and entertaining.

Dave Ramsey even has a super storybook series for kids called Life Lessons with Junior. This set of books can drastically change your child's future. Put them in the budget for next month. Buy it through my link on Amazon

What money lessons do you wish you had learned before college or marriage?

If it's free, then it's for me! - Money Fights #1

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Today, I wanted to begin this short series about some of my personal pitfalls and the issues that my wonderfully wise husband and I go round and round about. I am hoping that you can learn from my mistakes.

I say, "If it's free (or on sale) then it's for me!"
He says, "If you were not planning on buying it already this month, then you should wait. You probably don't need it."

I love bargains, but I am tempted to buy things I don't need just because they are on sale. I am even worse at resisting a freebie - which by the way is not really free if you are required to use your time, effort, or gas money to go to an extra store, fill out a form on the internet, bend over backwords, etc. for it!  I should have seen a red flag when me getting my tubes tied seemed more appealing to me just because it was going to cost less than birth control:). I think my Groupon intervention is scheduled for next week. Maybe if I hide under all the junkie free stuff that is piled in my closet taking up my space and energy to organize, they won't find me.

P.S. By the way if you love free stuff too, you just haaaaaaave to go to MoneySavingMom.com - my new favorite blog about being a better economist. I just got four free Christian ebooks there yesterday!

This week and part of next we are focusing on money management, so I would looooooooooove for you to post any of your insight or ideas in the comment area about stewardship anytime the rest of this month.

Deals on Dinner for Dad - Dad's Day #6

This was a birthday dinner the girls and I made for my hubby.

Teach your kids about stewardship and make the Dad in your life feel special at the same time.
You don't have to spend money at a fancy restaurant to make Dad feel special. My husband would actually prefer to stay home and have a special homecooked (or at least home heated in my case) meal made for him.

Get your child involved as you plan, shop, and prepare dinner for dad. One of the best places to learn about stewardship is the grocery store. Use store brands, compare prices, stick to your list and your budget, etc.

I love coupons, but don't have time for them at this stage in my life.  You might try putting your child in charge of finding coupons for the things you already use.  Let them keep part of whatever money they save as an incentive and a lesson in frugalness.
What other ways can you teach your kids about stewardship or anything else at the grocery store?