Daily life as a mom requires that we talk to our kids about things they don't like to hear often - correction, chores, homework, bedtime, etc.. Let's try to balance all these negative words with some positive ones. Tell your kid why you think they are so great! Here are some simple ideas.
1. Write a short note and put it:
in their lunch box
on their pillow
on the bathroom mirror or sink.
2. Make a new special place where you can leave notes for them regularly:
a pillow with a pocket in it
a see through plastic paper protector taped up on the shower
a white board next to the toilet.
3. Make plans to make a long list:
10 reasons I love my 10 year old.
Message in a Bottle - My husband filled an old bottle with tiny messages for me.
Medicine Bottle - fill it with little notes to help them feel better when they are down.
On a deck of cards - 52 reasons I thank God for you for the 52 weeks in a year
(These last two ideas were from my Bible study leader, Elaine, who inspires me often)
I would love to hear about your ideas for encouraging your children.
When I write these encouraging words to my kids it is amazing to see how my heart is softened toward them as I remind myself of how great my kids really are. When I have a grateful heart toward them, it is much easier to tolerate the few things about them that aren't so great. Have a great weekend being an encouraging and grateful mom!
P.S. I am sure your husband would love for you to encourage him as well.
Friday, May 4, 2012
I thank God for you because... - Mother's Day Memories #3
Labels:
four loves,
grateful heart,
gratefulness,
notes,
to do list
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